Not All Cancers Are the Same—So Why Is Your Treatment

March 24, 20255 min read

Not All Cancers Are the Same—So Why Is Your Treatment

Medical Diagnosis Cancer

Not All Cancers Are the Same—So Why Is Your Treatment?
Spoiler alert: it shouldn’t be. But here we are...

Let’s get one thing straight right out of the gate:

You are not your diagnosis code. And your care plan shouldn’t be a copy-paste job from the last ten people who walked through the cancer clinic door with a breast cancer.

But that’s exactly what’s happening for thousands of people every single day.

They’re told:
“You have breast cancer.”
“You have lung cancer.”
“You have colon cancer.”

Like that tells the whole story. Like that is the story.

Newsflash: it’s not.

Two people can be told they have the same type of cancer—and underneath that label, be dealing with completely different beasts. One is slow-growing. One is aggressive. One responds to hormone blockers. One laughs in the face of chemo. And yet… they get handed the same damn protocol.

Same drugs.
Same dose.
Same side effects.
Same hope it works.

This isn’t just lazy. It’s dangerous.

And it’s why people like us—people who have walked this path, fought for loved ones, and stared into the abyss of “WHAT is going on here?”—are raising our hands (and our eyebrows) and saying…

Hold up. Can we please stop pretending this is good enough?


When we first met Tatiana, she was three rounds into chemotherapy for hormone-positive breast cancer.

She knew her tumor was ER/PR-positive.
She knew the chemo was “standard for her stage.”
What she didn’t know was that her tumor had mutations—real, actionable targets—that no one had tested for.

“I was told I was lucky it wasn’t triple-negative,” she said.
“But no one mentioned I might still have options beyond the standard drugs.”

That moment—the one where the cracks in the system become impossible to ignore—is where a lot of people find us.
Not because they’re being difficult.
Because they’re paying attention.

Tatiana started asking questions. The kind most people don’t even know they’re allowed to ask. And what she uncovered was a pattern we see all too often:

Cancer is being treated like a one-size-fits-all condition. When really, it’s as individual as your fingerprint.


Cancer Is Not a Monolith

You’ve probably heard “every cancer is different,” right?

Well… that’s not just a Hallmark sentiment. It’s molecular reality.

Let’s break it down:

  • Type: Okay, you’ve got breast cancer. But is it ductal? Lobular? Inflammatory? Triple-negative? HER2-low? All different roads.

  • Grade: Is it chill or is it revved up and ready to spread?

  • Molecular makeup: Is there a mutation driving this? Is it hormone-fed? Is it repair-deficient? Is there a targetable gene just sitting there, waiting for someone to notice?

Now layer in:

  • Your blood sugar and insulin levels

  • Your immune function

  • Your chronic stress and sleep (or lack of it)

  • The crap your cells have been swimming in for years (hello, toxins and inflammation)

That’s what we call your terrain.
And all of it shapes how cancer shows up, grows, spreads, and responds.


But Here’s the Kicker…

None of that gets talked about in the average oncology appointment.

You get a plan. Maybe a binder. A few handouts.

But what you don’t get? A roadmap that’s actually about you.

There’s a reason we hear this from clients every week:

“It just feels like I’ve been slotted into a system—not actually seen.”

And we get it. Because we’ve lived it. We’ve questioned it. And now? We help others rewrite the script.


Real Talk: The System Was Built for the Average

Standard treatment protocols were designed for the “average patient.” The problem? No one is average. Especially not you.

You are a one-of-a-kind constellation of biology, history, resilience, and real-life complexity.

So why are you being handed a one-size-fits-all plan for the most critical, complex challenge of your life?

Because the system doesn’t have time to slow down.
It doesn’t have the tools—or the curiosity—to go deeper.
But we do.


We Believe in Treating Cancer Like a Fingerprint

There’s a saying we love:

“It’s like saying all soups are the same because they’re liquid. Broth, bisque, chowder—totally different vibes. Totally different recipes.”

Cancer’s the same. Two tumors under the microscope might look alike—but their internal playbook? Night and day.

This is where molecular profiling, liquid biopsy, and metabolic testing change the game. They give us data that tells a bigger story.

And once you know that story—you can make better, bolder, more aligned choices.


This Is What We Do (And Why We Do It)

We’re not here to replace your oncologist.
We’re here to help you see what’s missing—and take the reins.

At Calm Over Cancer, we help you:

  • Decode your cancer with tools like Datar Cancer Genetics Testing Exacta and CancerTrack

  • Understand what’s fueling it and what could slow it down

  • Build a plan that works with your body, not just against the tumor

  • Ask better questions, get better answers, and stop being dismissed

We work with people who are newly diagnosed, in treatment, or trying to figure out next steps after the standard options failed.

They’re not looking for fluff. They want facts, strategy, and support.
And they’re not afraid to question the status quo—just like us.


You Deserve More Than a Protocol

So here’s what we want you to know:

  • Ask what type and subtype of cancer you have.

  • Find out if molecular testing is an option. (Even if no one mentions it—especially then.)

  • Don’t be afraid to get a second opinion—or a third.

  • Pay attention to your terrain. (Glucose, sleep, inflammation, and stress do matter.)

  • Use your voice. This is your body. Your life. Your right to understand what’s happening and why.


💬 In case you skimmed (no judgment)...

You’re not a diagnosis code.
You’re not average.
You’re not here for cookie-cutter care.

You deserve a plan that reflects your body, your story, and your real options.

Because your healing path should be as unique as your fingerprint—and we’re here to help you find it.


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